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Whether you celebrate a holiday this time of year or not. Whether one of your family’s love languages is buying each other presents, or you’d rather just avoid this consumeristic season. In these political times, stories of resistance, messages of anti-oppression, and the spirit of anti-fascism are necessary to the children in your life; whether you’re buying them books or helping them find great ones to check out at your local library.

This is a list I have wanted to write for a while. In the age of Trump, we are all reeling from the hatred, ignorance, and constant attacks on our freedoms and civil rights. There is so much wrong with what is being said and legislated, and so many disgusting fringe ideas being mainstreamed right now- I had no idea where to start with a list like this. With so many communities under attack, it felt like going in any one direction would leave out an important group, idea, or cause.

So, to make myself write this list, I have to acknowledge that I cannot write one list that will encompass every community experiencing oppression. I’d have to write an encyclopedia to do that, and while that’s pretty much what I actually want to do, I do not have the time or resources to make that happen. Further, this is not going to be a book list. It’s going to be a list of book lists, or a list of resources I turn to, to find great diverse, defiant youth literature. Many of these are resources I always have listed on my blog’s Resources page, and all of these are great places to find incredible books, media, and information for young people.

One thing, very quickly before we dive in. When we live in a world where books published for children and young adults are still mostly about white, straight, cisgender Christian people, part of the purpose of lists such as these is to help children and families of diverse cultures, ethnicities, religions, and identities find books that reflect themselves and their communities back to them. But also in a world where white supremacy and fascism are on the rise, it is very important that we give privileged children windows into other people’s experiences. It is vitally important that adults show the children in their lives the normalcy, brilliance, and beauty of people from marginalized experiences that are not their own.

Catch all resources to help you find diverse books

The most logical place to start is We Need Diverse Books. #WeNeedDiverseBooks started as an activist movement. Aware of the great lack of diversity in book publishing, authors and readers came together and posted about why they need diverse books, to prove to publishers that there was not only a need but a market for diverse stories. It was a big turning of the tide in the conversations publishers were having, and books that were being put out there. Book publishing still isn’t diverse enough, and We Need Diverse Books is still doing great work! They do mentorship programs for all you undiscovered authors out there, they put out anthologies of diverse work, and they put together great book suggestions most easily found on their Tumblr. They’ve also created the app Our Story, where you can program in the age of your child and the type of diverse stories you’re looking for and it will generate a list of books at the right reading level for you!

Diverse Book Finder is a new resource, it is a database of books aimed at helping you find books that reflect your diverse experience. Their search capabilities are a bit basic, there’s just one search bar. But in the search results there are a number of categories that allow you to filter the search to find the books you’re looking for.

Books for Littles is a website featuring diverse reads that I found out about because of their fantastic list Captivating Kids Stories to Recognize Privilege. It begins by talking about privilege and why it is so crucial to discuss with young people. The list goes on to talk about picture books that address all kinds of privilege, economic, male, white, non-disabled, straight, body size, freedom from religious persecution, colonialist, documented citizen, language and cultural fluency. Truly incredible and one of a kind.

M is for Movement is another great newer resources online. It is edited and maintained by children’s book authors and illustrators who are all also long-time activists. They give great write-ups on activist books, and insight into their process and goals. There are also some great lists for kids about activism: this one from geekdad.com, this one from Popsugar, and this one from All the Wonders.

 

Christian Zabriskie put together a really great list “Children’s Books Featuring Social Justice Themes A Practical Bibliography Prepared for the Rita Gold Community.” It’s a lovely list of picture books he prepared for his daughter’s school.

 

 

 

One of my long-time, go-to resources is Diversity in YA. It’s a great blog that updates regularly about new great diverse YA titles. It was founded by Malinda Lo, herself an amazing writer of diverse YA books. Rich In Color is another fantastic resource for for finding diverse YA titles, with a diverse staff of writers there’s always a new book to discover.

 

 

And even though this list is aiming not to be an encyclopedia, it is too long to be held in one article! Please check out the other two articles in the Give the Gift of Resistance series: Resources to find books, media, and information about specific communities and identities, and Necessary Histories.

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So, the first thing I need to say about this list is that it is going to be incomplete. There are so many communities and identities in the US, that there is no way I could do a round up of for every one. If I am missing you, your family, your community, I am sorry; please let me know in the comments and I’ll do my best to do a round up for y’all soon!

Latinx In Kid Lit is a great resource that focuses on Latinx representation in youth literature. Remezcla is another good website to keep an eye on, as an online newspaper focuses on Latinx culture and issues, they regularly include book reviews; I really loved this list of 8 YA Books With Latino Protagonists We Wish We Had As Teenagers. Along with some fantastic book lists about latinx experiences– like this one on Book Riot, this one on Social Justice Books, this incredible YA list on Bustle, Stanford University’s Children’s books by or about Latinx and Hispanic Americans list, also one of the best books that came this year is called The First Rule of Punk for middle schoolers, and this super sweet one time webcomic by Terry Blas— it’s also a good idea to connect with local immigrant’s rights organizations and engage your kids with local activism. In the Seattle area: Washington Immigrant Solidarity Network does some amazing work you and your kiddo can help out with. Burien Represent does some vital work to amplify the knowledge and experiences of those who have been historically marginalized and disenfranchised. AID NW has a trailer and offers aid to folks released from the for profit immigrant detention center in Tacoma, and they could certainly use community support.

There are a number of great resources about Muslim people and communities, Isra Hashmi wrote this great 10 must Have Books, Simply Islam has a very long list of Islamic Children’s Books, Stanford University’s Library has a Children’s books with an Islamic theme list,  BrightMuslim.com has its own 10 Muslim Children’s books list. Book Riot has quite a few lists of YA books featuring Muslim characters (and written by Muslim authors), Diversity in YA has many book reviews featuring Muslim main characters. A great online resource for teenagers is MuslimGirl.com, an online magazine written by and made for young Muslim women. There are independent Muslim kids book publishers like Muslim Children’s Books, or the subscription service Noor Kids. And also I just wanted to point out one book I’m particularly excited about, 1001 Inventions and Awesome Facts from Muslim Civilization! A vitally important look at the incredible achievements Muslim people and culture have brought to our world.

There are quite a few places to find quality youth literature about Black people and communities. One resource I’ve used for a long time is The Brown Bookshelf, written and maintained by Black authors the Brown Bookshelf regularly updates with great picture book recommendations. 1000 Black Girl Books Resource Guide is a guide put together by a Black girl named Marley Dias (her excellence and magic are beyond impressive). The Sweet Peas @thesweetpeagirls on Instagram includes photo post recommendations and video submissions of Black girls talking about their favorite books- it’s informative and delightful! We Read Too is an app with loads of recommendations of books by people of color about people of color. Stanford University has a list of Children’s books by or about African Americans, Huffington Post has a list of 21 must read, Essence has a list of 17, you’d think Book Riot would have the most with their list of 100, but the African American Literature Book Club beats them all with their list of 120+. A great local group to be aware of is Seattle Urban Book Expo, they do an annual Book Expo featuring independent Black authors, and their Facebook features local Black authors year round.

The internet is filled with good options if you’re looking for books about Jewish people and their faith. Jewish Books for Kids is cute and delightful, PJ Library offers free books to Jewish Families, and I very much enjoyed their Awesome Multicultural Jewish Children’s Books list. Book Browse has a list of YA books for readers who are done reading about the Holocaust and a list of Jewish Themed books not about the Holocaust. I was also a very big fan of these two short lists, Jewish Journal’s Shavuot inspires children’s books and Interfaith Family’s Little Critics’ Picks for Jewish Children’s Books. Also this “holiday season” perhaps your family would like to learn more about Hanukkah. Tablet did a best list of 2015 and 2016, and My Jewish Learning has a great Jewish Children’s Literature list that explores the classics, and of course Stanford University’s library made a list Children’s books with a Jewish theme.

I was able to find a number of lists about Asian American youth literature, but I had a hard time finding a website that focused solely on the subject (please point out a resource if I missed it). Stanford of course has a great list Children’s books by or about Asian Americans. Multiracial Asian Families (another very cool online resources) had another great list of Multiracial Asian Children’s Books. Brightly has a cute list of 13 children’s books, and The Color of Us had a list of 30. There’s also quite a few YA lists: Bustle made a list of 11, Diversity in YA did a roundup, and the list Sharanya Sharma put together for Book Riot is the most comprehensive I’ve ever seen! Also the best YA romance I’ve read since Eleanor and Park (Another good romance with an Asian American lead) is When Dimple Met Rishi. When Dimple Met Rishi is a light-hearted and endearing story of two young Indian Americans, who meet without Dimple knowing their parents had arranged for them to be married. After Dimple sets the record straight that she will be married off, the two are awkwardly trapped together as teammates in Insomniacon, then against all odds they find themselves falling in love. Also I want to quickly mention one of my all time favorite authors Gene Luen Yang, he is a prolific graphic novelist who always features Asian main characters, most frequently Chinese and Chinese American. I also tried to find book lists and resources solely dedicated to Pacific Islander stories, and was only able to find Pacific Island Books, whose design looks like it came straight from the 90’s… [edit, suggestion from the comments: Here’s a site that focuses on South Asian children’s books and diverse books: https://kitaabworld.com]

American Indians in Children’s Literature is a resource I have been using for years to get reviews of youth literature featuring Indigenous characters, all run and written by Indigenous people. Indian Country Media Network is an online Indigenous-run newspaper, that is a great way to keep up on current events, culture, and opportunities for Indigenous communities. The Library at The University of Illinois created a fairly comprehensive list of online and print materials. A fantastic book list that just came out is #IndigenousReads by Indigenous Writers: A Children’s Reading List, put together by the Conscious Kid Library. Stanford University has a very strong list of Children’s books by or about Native Americans. Strong Nations has a comprehensive database of Indigenous books for teens, and books for kids. Book Riot put together a list of YA books featuring Indigenous main characters by Indigenous women. YA Interrobang did a great list of  #OwnVoices Representation: Native American Authors. We are also very fortunate in Seattle, because we are neighbors with the highest population of Indigenous Americans in an urban area. You can go visit and support the Daybreak Star Indian Cultural Center, or go to one of their amazing events. The Duwamish Tribe has a Longhouse and Cultural Center you can support and visit, as well as a calendar of events to go to. And there’s the Steinbrueck Native Gallery that features Native arts and artists year round.

There are also a number of places you can turn to when looking for queer representation in Youth Literature. Don’t let the title of Gay-Themed Books for children fool you, they feature books for trans and gender nonconforming people, alternative family building, and even gender play via “crossdressing” and “tomboys” (I do wish they had a bi section though…).  LGBTQ Reads is a great Tumblr to follow, they review and recommend books regularly, and have an “ask for a rec section” that they answer all the time! Another great Tumblr to follow is YA Pride, while they are a little more tumblr-y with many reposts of related but not all book-rec posts, they are constantly posting about queer YA and issues surrounding queer representation in literature. Stanford University has a great list of Children’s books with an LGBTQ theme. Book Riot just put together this lovely long list of great 20+ LGBTQ reads for your kids. Book Riot also has a list of 100 YA books. Autostraddle’s book reviews are not purely for young people, but many of them are. The Advocate has a good list of 21 picture books. Bustle has a lovely list of 30. Common Sense Media has a list with books for folks starting at 3 and ending at 17. I also would recommend you check out the independent book Publisher Flamingo Rampant who creates and publishes books for gender-independent kids and families!

Of course we need resources on mixed race protagonists and multiracial families. As I mentioned in the Asian American resources paragraph Multiracial Asian Families is a great online resource. Mixed Remixed is the nation’s premiere cultural arts festival celebrating stories of mixed-race and multiracial families and individuals through films, books and performance, and I love their Top 10 Children’s Books with Mixed Race Families list. Colours of Us is a website all about multicultural Children’s books, and here’s a great list they did of 50 books. I’m NOT the Nanny is Thien-Kim’s blog she writes about her life, which is in large part about her biracial kids, and she put together this list of 9 picture books. What Do We Do All Day has a list of 14 Children’s Books with Multiracial Families. I had a harder time finding YA books, YALSA’s The Hub did a list Mixed but Not Mixed Up, VOYA did a list of Mixed-Race Identity and Power in YA Fiction, and Diversity in YA has a Multiracial Characters tag that will bring you a long list of reviews.

There are also a lot of great resources to help kids engage with feminism. A Mighty Girl offers regular book reviews, and has the most comprehensive book review section I’ve seen on a website not solely dedicated to books. Rejected Princesses is really fun online resource; they tell the stories of incredible women throughout history–warriors, explorers, scientists, spies, etc– as if they were Disney princesses, they are real fun to follow on Facebook too. New York Magazine did a great list of 16 books, and Buzzfeed did a list of 30, Mother mag made their own feminist kids books list. For YA New York Mag made a list of 11, and both Book Riot and Bitch Media made lists of 100. A book I want to Highlight is Rad Women Worldwide: Artists and Athletes, Pirates and Punks, and Other Revolutionaries Who Shaped History. I also want to highlight a few (not at all comprehensive) kids books about Transgender girls and Trans Feminine kids, because what is feminism that’s not trans inclusive? Worthless. Be Who You Are, I am Jazz, My Princess Boy, and 10,000 Dresses. And a great local resource is Geek Girl Con (Twitter) (Facebook) (Tumblr) (Instagram), they always post fun facts, and great recommendations, plus an annual con!

Again, please let me know in the comments if you would like to see a list for a community, identity, or experience not represented here. And please check out the other two articles in the Give the Gift of Resistance series. The series began with Catch all resources to help you find diverse books, and finishes with Necessary Histories.

One resource I was really hoping to find was world history resources for young people. One of the reasons white Supremacy is allowed to thrive is because African, Latin American, Asian, Middle Eastern and Arab histories are not taught in primary school. The great advances that civilizations made outside of Europe and post-colonial US simply are not known to the average American- not because they didn’t happen, but because of our Eurocentric educations. Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to find a lot. You can of course find kids books about all the countries in the world at your local library. But a single hub where you can learn world history remains out of my grasp (please, please, PLEASE let me know if you know of such a resource). One great list I was able to find, was put together by Kelly L Roll and Kathryn M Kerns, both librarians at Stanford University. Their list Children’s Books About History is one of the most comprehensive and inclusive ones I’ve seen. Roll and Kerns also made great picture books lists on Children’s books with an African theme, Children’s books with an Asian theme, and Children’s books with a Latin American theme.

A good place to look for World History online is Britannica Online, which you can access for free with your library card from (Seattle Area Library’s) KCLS or SPL’s websites. Britannica allows you to search as a child, teen, or adult; you can search for continents, countries, cultures, and ethnic groups that should be covered more in US public education. A great way to learn about the contemporary world is via Culturegrams, which again you can access for free with your library card on KCLS or SPL’s websites. And of course you can always go into your local library, and a librarian or another information professional will be happy to show you print and online materials about any topic you’d like to know more about.

The Zinn Education Project is a really great resource for learning about US histories that far too often get left out of school curriculum. Howard Zinn is famous for being a historian who put together A People’s History of the United States of America, a history book focused on people’s movements–primarily labor– and trying to demystify some of the mythology that leads to our worship of some pretty terrible leaders from our past. The Zinn History Project continues his work, and collects a wide variety of resources from fiction books, to profiles of untold American heroes, to even more great websites.

And while we’re talking about filling in the massive gaps left out of most US history classes, I think it’s vitally important we learn about the cost that European Colonialism had on Indigenous nations and tribes. When searching for children’s books about colonialism what you tend to find are Eurocentric books, with lots of illustrations of white people in settler towns. So to find resource lists about that brutality of European colonizers I had to search for the trail of tears, and even then the pickings were slim. The Best Children’s Books offers this short list, and Tina’s Dynamic Homeschool Plus offered this longer one. I would again refer you to American Indians in Children’s Literature, Indian Country Media Network, and The Library at The University of Illinois’ list to find more materials about how messed up colonization was.

Another topic very much worth discussing with young people in your lives are Indian boarding schools (here in the US) or Indian residential schools (in Canada), and there are quite a few lists and books on this topic. American Indians in Children’s Literature offers a great list, with books for multiple ages, along with nonfiction titles, websites, and videos. Color in Colorado also offers a hefty list, as does Worlds of Words. A movie I watched in high school that introduced me to the realities of Indian Boarding Schools was Rabbit-Proof Fence. Set in Australia– where they had a near identical boarding school program for Aboriginal communities– you see three girls taken from their families, forced into a cruel boarding school, and then break out to start an incredible and dangerous journey home.

Also, it is incredibly important that as we teach young people about the oppression of indigenous people, that we talk about how these are not problems relegated to the United States’ past. Standing Rock only happened last year, Nations and Tribes continue to fight for sovereignty, sacred lands, and that the federal government respect treaties it signed. Teaching For Change has some great resources on teaching about No DAPL, as does the Institute for Humane Education. The Duwamish Tribe–local to us here in Seattle– is currently fighting for Federal Recognition, you can learn about them on their website, join the Real Rent movement to support them— please learn more about real rent at realrentduwamish.org—work with your young activists to support their cause.

Another part of history young people need to have a very honest understanding of is slavery. First let’s address this absolute foolishness that the confederacy was about anything besides maintaining slavery. There are a great number of books for children and teenagers about The Civil War, and I hope that they all will tell the truth that confederate leaders rallied their support around the cause of supporting slavery. In fact the Vice President of the confederacy gave a speech calling slavery the ‘cornerstone’ of the confederacy. There are many booklists about slavery, and all young people need to learn how horrible and disgusting that part of our history was. The Huffington Post has a list of honest books about slavery for varying ages, Carol Hurst’s Children’s Literature Site has a number of teaching tools along with a book list, School Library Journal has a list of Slightly more recent books about Slavery, Social Justice Books has a great long list for all ages. Also, as we try and position ourselves in these times I think it’s important that we show young people heros who stood for freedom. Horn book has a great list of books about Harriet Tubman, who, let’s be real, was the actual GOAT. And I want to highlight a book John Brown: His Fight For Freedom. John Brown is the person Malcolm X said white allies should try and emulate if they wanted to be allies to Black Liberation; and this book has beautiful and dynamic pictures, well-written verses, and tells Brown’s story in a compelling way for children.

There are also a number of great resources on the Civil Rights movement. A Mighty Girl has a fantastic list featuring women and girls who were instrumental to the Civil Rights movement, Common Sense Media has a long list starting for kids 4 years old and going up to 13, The Best Children’s Books has a hefty list for younger and older kids, and YALSA has a list of books for teen readers. I also want to highlight a few books, first and foremost the March graphic novel series by John Lewis. March tells John Lewis’ story of the Civil Rights Movement in an incredibly moving and compelling way. The illustrations are beautiful, and the story action packed and suspenseful, amazing enough to get the most reluctant readers into history. Lewis highlights all the great activists and change makers he worked with, highlighting some lesser known and incredibly important leaders in the Civil Right Movement. I think the March series is important to activists of any age, because it grounds you in the work it takes to create change. John Lewis was involved in many actions and campaigns, he put his comfort, safety, and life on the line over and over again. These times have us all overwhelmed and overloaded, but reading about the incredible work Lewis and his peers did is an important reminder that we have to continue to show up, continue to keep fighting. Now, because this is Lewis’ story it’s from his point of view, and takes his side on infighting within the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee. I would suggest that in tandem with reading March young readers also check out The Black Power Movement and Black Power, both of which look at folks like Stokely Carmichael–the man who coined the phrase “black power”– and Black Liberation Politics in a more positive light.

And again, it is important to ground these histories in the contemporary civil rights struggles of the Black Lives Matter movement. Kiera Parrott made this excellent Black Lives Matter reading list for teens, that I am going to add onto mostly because a few amazing books came out after she wrote this list. Hush by Jacqueline Woodson tells the story of 12 year old Toswiah, who goes from always having had a positive relationship to the police–her father is a cop– to having to hide from them in witness protection when her dad speaks out about fellow officers shooting an unarmed Black teen. The Hate U Give is one of the most talked about books this year, and for good reason. Angie Thomas is a beautiful writer, you feel so deeply for Starr as she has to deal with the pain of her childhood best friend being gunned down by police in front of her eyes, and then deciding how to respond and be involved in the aftermath. Dear Martin just came out in October, and tells the story of a young man who experiences brutality, told in real time and in his letters to Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. I am Alfonso Jones, which is so new it’s still on order at the King County Library System, is a graphic novel about the ghost of Alfonso Jones as he follows friends and family in a subway car on their way to fight for justice for him.

A part of American history so shameful many of us are not taught about it at all in US history is Japanese Internment Camps. The Best Children’s Books has a list for students grades 1-8, Pragmatic Mom’s list is beautiful as she weaves her own family history into it, YALSA has a list for teen readers. But to be honest I see far more overlap in the books mentioned in the lists then in others I have pulled together. I would like to highlight a couple of books, keeping in step with the need to show young people heroes I would strongly recommend Fred Korematsu Speaks up. Fred Korematsu, a Japanese American man, fought the internment camps all the way to the Supreme Court. Also Dear Miss Breed which chronicles the real life correspondence between children in internment camps and their friend and Children’s Librarian Miss Breed; I am so deeply honored to share a profession with her.

Anti-Asian racism is also not a thing of the past and often times written off as not a problem. Talk to your kids about the lack of Asian representation in movies and TV shows. Learn about Asian American history and contemporary culture! Splinter News just did a great article on America’s radical Asian Activists. American Revolutionary: The Evolution of Grace Lee Boggs is a fantastic documentary about a bad-ass woman who fought for change until she died. No area libraries have it but you can watch it on Netflix. A+J did a great series on contemporary Chinese culture. A great local resource is the Wing Luc Museum, which always offer great exhibits and insight into Asian American and Pacific Islander experiences and histories.

I was very depressed by the greater lack of queer history books for young audiences then I was expecting. I could find one book for teens that looked contemporary Stonewall: Breaking Out in the Fight for Gay Rights and I was fairly disappointed that I didn’t find Sylvia Rivera or Marsha P Johnson listed in the index for it… And I was able to find one book for Children Gay & Lesbian History for Kids The Century-long Struggle for LGBT Rights, With 21 Activities. The supreme lack of youth literature in queer history alone shows how contemporary homophobia and transphobia are. An upcoming book I am very excited about, All Out edited by Saundra Mitchell, is a collection of short stories where amazing contemporary YA authors write historical fiction of queer youth throughout time. Also if you know any teens who want to start a queer history project, hit me up, that’s my dream library program.

And to finish off this list I think it’s necessary we teach all young people about the evils of Nazis and facism, and the great heroes who resisted and fought them. Teach with Picture Books has a short list on their website, and a very long annotated list in pdf form, many of which are about resisters. Carol Hurst’s Children’s Literature Site has a comprehensive list, Pragmatic Mom has a good list of books for kids, and the Jewish Book Council offers a long list of books for teens. One book I adored and very much want to recommend is We Will Not Be Silent: The White Rose Student Resistance Movement That Defied Adolf Hitler. We Will Not Be Silent tells the true story of young people brave enough to write and distribute anti-fascist literature in Nazi Germany. Their words are beautiful, their story compelling, and the price they paid harrowing. It is heartbreaking and inspiring, and while it cannot offer its readers a happy ending it reminds us how powerful young change makers can be.

These are not even close to all the histories that need to be told, and I hope if you see stories and communities I left out you will let me know in the comments! I hope you have enjoyed the Give the Gift of Resistance series, and in case you missed it this article has two predecessors: Catch all resources to help you find diverse books and Resources to find books, media, and information about specific communities and identities.

I’ve been wanting to share YA book recommendations that deal with rape culture for a long time. And in light of the popular resurgence of #MeToo I feel that now is probably the time. But– and forgive me, this is going to take a while– I think we need to start by talking about rape culture. It’s a term that has been around since the 1970’s. Created by the second wave feminist movement, rape culture refers to the many ways in which our society normalizes a great number of big ideas, and individuals’ behaviors so that rape (& sexual assault, & sexual harassment) are a regular part of living.

This looks like a number of different things. Sometimes it might mean telling a child that their classmates picking on them means that “they really like you.” Sometimes it might mean that mothers talk to their daughters about how to avoid being raped, but nobody talks to their sons about getting consent before they engage in sexual activity. Sometimes it might mean dissecting everything the survivor of sexual assault did to “ask for it,” and talking at great lengths about the bright futures the perpetrators had that were put in jeopardy by such accusations. Sometimes it means suggesting that if women do not want to be sexually harassed they should get out of high power workplaces. Sometimes it means reducing a man bragging about sexually assaulting women and dozens of women coming forward and saying that that man sexually assaulted them to “locker room talk” or “boys will be boys.” Sometimes it means that powerful career makers are openly allowed to assault young women, and their buddies will help cover up the story.

And rape culture is so hard to tackle because there’s so many different facets to address. We need to make a huge cultural shift in how we approach sex, and how vital consent is. We need to talk to young people of all genders about how you shouldn’t engage in intimate relations with anyone without consent. We need to stop talking about how getting consent is a mood killer; without going into details I can tell you that someone asking if they can do X Y or Z in bed is extremely sexy. We need to talk to young people about how they are not owed sex, that no matter what expectations they may have are, or why they have them, it’s not ok to coerce anyone else into sex.

We also need to make a huge cultural shift in how we think about rapists. Rapists can be our children, our siblings, and our parents, rapists can be our good friends, or our partners, or a member of our church community. Because we live in rape culture, there are lots of people who think their actions are totally normal and acceptable, even when they commit sexual assault and rape. And we as their community members need to not only teach them better, but we need to hold them accountable. If someone we love, someone who shows us their best self, someone who we know to be a very good person is accused of rape, we must believe the accuser. Just because we love someone does not make them incapable of rape, and if we spend all our time fighting for them, all our passion worrying about how hard it is for the perpetrator- we make it harder for survivors, we further engrain rape culture, and we do nothing to help the perpetrators we love to be better people.

We are, every one of us, both victims of and perpetrators of rape culture. And we all need to do the work necessary to retrain ourselves in how we think about sex, who we think is capable of assault, and who we support when sexual assault does happen. This culture can be better because we can make it better. And here are some books I think can help.

Now I want to be clear who these books are for. They are not for survivors, many of these books talk about, and give details about sexual assault; some survivors could read such accounts and be ok, but many survivors could be hurt or re-traumatized by such stories. These books are for people who think survivors of sexual assault are asking for it. These books are for people who have never thought about how being assaulted could affect the survivor’s life. These books are for people of all genders, but in particular for young men. Because young men need to believe women, and understand how sexual assault affects women.

 

Speak, by Laurie Halse Anderson

I read this book when I was 16, and it moved me very deeply. I love the way Anderson writes; her characters are always so smart and funny but not too smart and funny to actually be teenagers. It’s a difficult sweet spot to reach with your writing and Anderson somehow manages to do it every time.

Speak tells the story of Melinda, a freshman who’s having a very hard first year at high school. Not only are all of her best friends from middle school part of different cliques now, and none of them are talking to her, but she’s a pariah of the entire school. Everyone knows that she’s the one who broke up the end of the year party by calling the cops. And as her social isolation intensifies, she just stops talking.

This book can at times be brutal, but Melinda’s biting remarks about school and the social groupings of high school give the reader the necessary comedic reprieves to totally enjoy this story.

So, by including this book in a list about rape culture I am already giving you a major spoiler. Melinda called the cops to the party because she got raped at the party, which in the book is a big reveal. The book explores how deeply devastating surviving sexual assault can be, Melinda’s inability to speak is in large part because she cannot admit what happened to her, and further cannot tell anyone what happened to her.

Speak was published in 2001, and has remained a touchstone of YA literature to this day. And for good reason, it was a groundbreaking book for teen audiences about sexual assault, and somehow manages to make such a story both hard-hitting and incredibly enjoyable to read. It deals with the physiological effects of being assaulted, and the internal struggle to self-advocate and to trust you will be believed. I don’t think this is the end-all, be-all narrative about teens surviving sexual assault, but I think it is gripping and cannot help but build the reader’s empathy towards survivors.

 

All The Rage, by Courtney Summers

Can we just start off by acknowledging how the title of this book is pretty incredible? I love playing with the meaning of the saying, and I love expressing female rage, and survivor’s rage.

If Speak is about the internal struggles and mental tolls that sexual assault takes on survivors, then All The Rage walks the reader through the external and societal struggles far too many survivors of assault experience. This is an unflinching narrative of what happens when communities do not believe survivors, and protect perpetrators.

Romy Grey lives in a tiny town, where everyone knows her as the loose girl who tried to ruin Sheriff Turner’s son’s life. Coming forward about being raped by Kellan ruined her reputation in her community, her social standing in high school, and even cost her her best friend. It is excruciating to read about the cruelty of the bullying she faces, mostly from teenagers who used to be her friends. It is painful to watch Romy meticulously apply her red nail polish and match it with lipstick as her armor against the world, because nobody outside of her home will offer her any protection.

I think everyone who ever talks about the terrible social cost of being accused of rape needs to read this book. Anyone who doesn’t understand why more survivors don’t come forward, and why they don’t come forward sooner needs to read this book. It is brutally painful, incredibly believable, and something real young women deal with far too often.

Romy’s former best friend tries to reconnect, says a girl a few towns over told her to be careful around Kellan, and then goes missing after a party. And the book turns into a bit of a murder mystery suspense novel. Nobody is looking at the folks who would be the most likely to have hurt her best friend, so Romy has to try and go after the truth herself.

A subplot to All The Rage is that Romy is a waitress in a restaurant outside of town, where nobody knows about her and she can exists anonymously. And she starts to build a romantic relationship with a cute coworker. It’s at times cute, and at times excruciating (as she’s still very much traumatized, and doesn’t want to tell him that she’s been assaulted because this is the one place where that doesn’t define her life) and always utterly believable. (And while I oftentimes don’t care for romances as secondary plot lines for YA) I think in one of the most brutal narratives about sexual assault it’s important to show the protagonist making romantic connections. Life goes on after sexual assault, you can give and receive love after sexual assault. This is a very bleak book, and considering the subject matter rightfully so, but this book also offers the reader and Romy hope for the future.

 

Exit, Pursued by a Bear, by E. K. Johnston

So Johnston decided that she wanted to write a book about rape, where after the assault had happened everything and everyone acted the way they ideally should. So, it’s a book about rape, without the rape culture.

What does that look like? Well, when the main character, Hermione Winters, wakes up at the hospital near cheer camp not remembering how her night ended and her best friend, Polly, is there and she carefully and thoughtfully explains how they found her. She is taken care of emotionally before legal and medical options are explored. The police officer who takes her statement is a woman, and believes Hermione. Her coach believes her and supports her, her team believes her and supports, her parents believes her and supports her.

Her boyfriend’s a dick, and is personally hurt she got raped. Which sucks. But she breaks up with him and really doesn’t dwell on that for any period of time.

Her parents help her find a therapist, and she goes through the long process of working on being ok, of getting better, of moving forward with her life. And when her biggest fear is realized–she’s become pregnant–everyone supports her decision to get an abortion, even her coach who had her baby when she was a teenager. And when she tells her mom that the person she wants to have take her to get an abortion is Polly, her mom, while a bit hurt, accepts her decision and supports her doing what she needs to do to be ok.

A lot of the reader reviews of Exit, Pursued by a Bear talk about what makes the book different from other YA narratives about rape is that Hermione is tough, that she has the spirit to move beyond the rape. I don’t necessarily disagree, but I think the reason Hermione is able to exhibit such grit is because of the great love and support she gets from her community. Unlike Melinda and Romy, Hermione is not an outcast after her assault; her friends and team stand by her. And unlike Melinda and Romy, who experience some of the worst bullying by their former female friends, in Exit, Pursued by a Bear, Polly and Hermione’s friendship only gets stronger in the aftermath of the assault. It is a true testament to the power, importance, and beauty that female friendship can have in your life.

 

The Female of the Species, by Mindy McGinnis

The book opens with the line “this is how I kill someone.” And the first chapter of the book takes you through how Alex meticulously plans and then executes the murder of a man who raped and murdered her sister, and who the police couldn’t convict. The first chapter ends with the lines:

“This is how I kill someone.

And I don’t feel bad about it.”

The Female of the Species was my favorite book of 2016, and the book I most needed to read in response to rape culture.

The book isn’t a chronicle of Alex going through her small town and murdering all the rapists in it (although I’d definitely read that book too).  It tells the story of Alex, PeeKay, and Jack. At the beginning of the story they’re all nobody to each other. Alex has chosen to be removed from her peers, and only comes into PeeKay and Jack’s lives when she and PeeKay both start volunteering at the animal shelter, and she and Jack are pulled into the guidance counselor’s office because Alex just overtook Jack’s place to be valedictorian.

Both PeeKay and Jack think Alex is weird, and she is, she talks like she learned English out of a book (she did), she’s unflinchingly honest with everyone, and she doesn’t take any shit. And they are both completely taken by Alex:PeeKay as a friend, Jack as a romantic interest.

It is really fascinating to watch someone actively fight against rape culture, I as a reader, and PeeKay and Jack as people who grow to love Alex, were completely entranced as Alex kneed a classmate in the balls who tried to hug Alex without her consent, and ripped a creeper’s nose ring out when he tried to take an intoxicated PeeKay home from a party.

Now I imagine that a lot of you are reading this, and aren’t stoked on the idea of YA literature advocating for teen vigilantes. And I’m not necessarily advocating that everyone #KillYourRapist, but there’s something incredibly empowering about reading about a teen girl who does. One of the valuable things that literature allows its readers to do is explore things that they wouldn’t want to or be able to do in real life. And for those of us surviving out here in rape culture, being able to read an empowering rape revenge story is what we need.

And whether or not you think violence is an acceptable tactic I think The Female of the Species is a great book for young people to read. Because Alex does not accept rape culture, and her standing up to rape culture inspires others to fight against it, using tactics that work for them. That is a message I want every young person to internalize.

 

Honorable mentions:

Gabi, Girl in Pieces, by Isabel Quintero is about so much more than surviving sexual assault– which is why it isn’t properly on the list and I’m fairly sure I’m going to give it a longer review in the future, so stay tuned– is a truly excellent book about growing up female. A lot of it is about finding your voice, learning to love your imperfect self, learning to find love and have affection for your family (even when you’re 17 and it’s REALLY hard), and how important friendship is. One of the things Gabi and her friends deal with is rape, and how it really doesn’t look like some stranger jumping out of the bushes at you. It’s such a great book about being a Latina teen that I think should be required reading.

Asking For It, by Lousie O’Neill is a book that got a lot of buzz when it came out in 2015. I haven’t read it so cannot vouch for it, but it’s about a girl who cannot remember the night she was assaulted but photos of it have been circulated to everyone in her school. In the age of smartphones and social media this seems an important take on surviving assault.

 

 

What We Saw, by Aaron Hartzler is a book that was recommended to me by a coworker that I haven’t been able to read yet. What We Saw takes a completely different viewpoint, it’s about a girl who was at a party when another girl gets assaulted. Kate can’t remember the night too well, and the book is about her trying to figure out if what the survivor claims is true. It looks at how silence by bystanders is a major form of complacency in rape culture.

 

Ultimately this list is incomplete, because the books published about surviving rape culture leave out so many experiences. We need books that explore how rape culture affects young women of color, queer & trans people, disabled people, immigrants, and how rape culture affects young men- because people of all genders can be sexually assaulted. As a society, and often times as feminist movements, we put far too much import on white, straight, cisgendered, able bodied women. If our feminist movements are really going to dismantle destroy rape culture, they need to do it for everyone. Otherwise our feminist movements are useless.


adapted from South Seattle Emerald

cote castle (1)This book was recommended to me by a fellow rad librarian, and dear hoomie, please check out her blog!

She thought this book would be a good way to have conversations with young readers about colonization. I completely agree!

The story is of Mr. King, who lives on the top of a hill and wants to have a HUGE castle. To build his castle he takes the land from all around his hill to make the building blocks. But you see, the thing is, there were tons of animals living in that forest! And by taking all that he wanted from the land around him he took away everyone else’s home.

Now where this book differs from real life colonization is that the other animals are able to talk to Mr. King about how his stealing their land is bad for them. And how it REALLY differs from real life is Mr. King sees the error in his ways, and together they dismantle Mr. King’s Castle and restore the land back to how it was.

So I think this book would be useful for people who have political leanings towards solidarity, mutual healing, and coalition building. You could have conversations about what colonizers need to know, and dream about ideas of how together we build a new world. This book could be paired very well with a literal and/or historical book about colonization to give the youngsters more tangible ideas of what colonization is and has been; to further a fruitful discussion of how to apply Mr. King’s solution to real life problems.

9780805093001As a patron returned this book she told me I HAD to read it, “it is so cute!” As a lover of cute things I could not resist. Lo and behold it was also something I could write about here!

It’s a story about a horsefly and a Honeybee (surprise!) who both try and take a nap in the same flower. When the bee falls onto the horsefly already sleeping they fight horribly, each ripping off one of the other’s wings. Then they both angrily walk a way from each other. AND THEN they both individually get captured by a frog who places them both on a lily pad, since neither can fly and cannot get a way, and goes to find more food.

In their fear they embrace each other, and then they realize that they can use their 2 wings together to fly a way. They land in the same flower, and find that it has enough room for them both to take a nap in.

I thought this book was a good metaphor for how the state pits oppressed groups against each other so they do not combined forces and fight against said state. Granted a frog is not a perfect metaphor for the government, but 2 bugs fighting one another for a tiny piece of the earth instead of working together against a common enemy is. I found the ending very exciting, and thought it would be a great way to have conversations about coalition building and solidarity work with young children.

A Children’s book about the Black Panthers. I know, I didn’t believe I myself. But, finally, it exists, and more over, it’s nothing sort of amazing. The book is beautifully written, with poise and personality. The adventures and relationships jump off the page and make it nearly impossible to put down.

It tells the story of Delphine the eldest of three sisters who leave Brooklyn for the summer of 1968, to spend it with their mother in Oakland. While in Oakland they attend the Black Panther day camp, which is these young girl’s first introduction to Black Liberation politics.

The theme that is explored most thoroughly is identity.

The first being family identity. Delphine and her sisters (Vonetta and Fern) have not seen their mother since Fern was born 7 years ago, and she isn’t too excited to see them now.  A central issue the girl’s struggle with is what their relationship to this woman should be, and what it actually is.

Another identity they explore is their Black identity. The girls have been raised by their grandmother and father, and their grandmother’s views of Blacks in America differ greatly from the views that the girls are taught in Oakland. They go from a life where they press their hair and think that if they make a scene in public it’ll “be an embarrassment to the negro race,” to a world of afros, know your rights trainings, and protests. It’s a lot for three pre-teens to deal with, and Gracia gives them space to think about and suss out these ideas for themselves.

The thing that most excited me about this book was how it legitimized politically radical people’s lives. We meet Black Panthers in this story that aren’t scary or crazy. People who are at odds with America and the police are given a voice and legitimate reason for having these believes. Delphine, Venotta, and Fern’s close friend is the son of a political prisoner, they themselves have negative experiences with the police. It’s a very real look at the lives of Black Liberation activists in the late 60s, and it manages to do it in a way that isn’t too intense for child readers.

And why wouldn’t it? There were many children like Delphine and her sisters in the Black Panther movement. Why wouldn’t those experiences be made accessible to children today? I think Williams-Garcia sums it up perfectly with the last line in her author’s note: “And yes, there were children.”

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